Setting Boundaries

It’s so unsexy. But my lands, it has changed my life. I used to think that having boundaries was mean, but I was just walking around resentful all the time.

It’s a skill, it takes time to learn. You will probably mess it up and make mistakes but it will change your life. Learn how to protect yourself and your peace. “If you do XYZ, this is what I will do.” It has made my relationships better, given me more confidence, helped me trust myself to have my own back. This book is a good one, it references the Bible a lot, but even if you aren’t Christian it has a lot of useful principles and ideas.